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THEY ARE NO MORE !

 When you have to face two unfortunate incidents within four days , it becomes very hard on you. In my strange life , it happened on 28th April 2019 and 02nd May 2019. It was the dark night of 28th April 2019 at 13.30 p.m. I lost my mother in law . 

 She was admitted in S. K. Parulekar Hospital at Kudal on 25th April 2019 at 13.30 p.m. as she was not able to speak and was very weak to make any move. High blood pressure, diabetics and few other illness. She was almost recovered on 27th April 2019 and Dr. Rane told us that after one more day's inspection she would be shifted from ICU to general ward . But , at 20.30 p.m. on the 28th April 2019 her condition became more critical . At 23.30 p. m. she was no more in this world due to heart attack . 

 It is a shock for us as we hopped that she will get well soon after the hospitalization and planned to bring her at our home after that . But that was not to be happen. The incident is fully unfortunate and it is a fact that nobody could do anything to prevent her death. She was 75 years old and was sick for last few months . Nothing could be done to restore her life. 


 The other incident hit us on the very fifth morning . Our cat who was with us for last fifteen years died having a stroke ! It is also heartbreaking for us . This cat was very fond of my wife and it was all the time behind her. This cat was a very special for us as it never steal even fish or milk or anything eatable. No complaint was made by any of our neighbours in last fifteen years . It is a record itself as far as the cat is concerned . You can see her in the next photo sleeping calmly in the house. It was getting everything to eat and drink in home that it never went for eating at the next door .
At four O' clock, the cat went outside and did not returned . I waited for ten minutes and thought that it would have slept somewhere outside as it had such habit . At six O' clock I opened the back door of my house and found the dead cat lying in front of the door in the backyard as shown in the following photo. It was another shock for me . Tears came out and I yelled for my wife . She saw it and started to cry . I dig and buried the cat with tears running . It was the morning of 02nd May 2019 ! We will never forget this day and the loved cat !

You can see in this figure how the cat is laying with no life in her. There was no sign of beating , fighting or anything suspicious around her . She went silently without giving any notice of her departure . There was no sign at all for us to know that this cat will die in few minutes after going out of the door. It went finally forever ! It  comes in our eyes now and every now and then we remember her !

  I have written about these days on my facebook page Changyalya

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